
Pardon the namedropping, but this story needs to be told...
I met
Jessica Smith in July of 2008. I owned an online boutique called The Apple of My Eye and she was looking for Wishpot Mom Experts. We had a phone interview which lasted about an hour and Twitter came up in the conversation. She asked me if I was on it, I said, "No" and she suggested I get an account.
I got a Twitter account (
@theappleofmyeye) and started socializing. I realized that most of the gals I was communicating with were mom bloggers and I wanted to be a part of "the gang". They were having parties, talking about fun products, doing giveaways, sharing interesting info and supporting each other in times of need. We had just moved from the west coast to the Midwest and knew no one. I needed this group of ladies more than they knew, so my blog
Giftfully Simple was born in February of 2009 and by July of 2009, I had 7 companies sponsoring me for BlogHer.
BlogHer was great! I finally got to meet my Twitter friends
Jessica Smith,
Katja Presnal,
Sugar Jones,
Danielle Smith,
Jyl Johnson-Pattee,
Amy Lupold Bair,
Allison Worthington,
Kelby Carr and
Audrey McClelland. These were the bloggers I had gotten to know on Twitter. This was the sole reason I wanted to attend BlogHer.
Then, when I thought I had met everyone I had planned on meeting, I met
Ted Rubin from e.l.f. cosmetics. Somehow the conversation moved to baseball and the fact the my husband and I are big fans of the Yankees and so was Ted. He asked me if I'd like to have an e.l.f. cosmetics party which included getting the entire line of e.l.f cosmetics to share with friends. I said, "Yes," and a partnership and a friendship was made.
In September, I was invited by Jyl Johnson Pattee to a tweetup that was being sponsored by MARS, Mom it Forward, Whrrl and Collective Bias. The invite was online, so I was able to see who was attending. After finding out who was attending, I HAD to go. Not only was Jyl attending, but
Lucretia Pruitt,
Sandy Jenny,
Connie Burke,
Scott Monty, John Andrews and
John Kim had all RSVP'd- Yes.
Attending this tweetup was the best decision I could have made and prior to attending I did my homework.
The person who I recognized from Facebook because we had a ton of mutual friends, but wasn't sure what part he played in the lives of my blogging friends was
John Andrews. So, instead of wondering, I started researching and found out that John was the creator of the
11 Walmart Moms...he was huge! When I met him I was prepared and made sure he knew. He invited me to join his
Collective Bias ning group and I was ecstatic.
I also had the chance to reconnect with Jyl Johnson Pattee and meet Scott Monty, in person, for the first time. Being at that single social event was the key to the doors that started opening up for me as an influential blogger.
The first thing that happened was Jyl asked me if I was interested in participating in a campaign called, "A Day Made Better" by becoming an Office Max Max Mom.
The second thing that happened was Scott Monty invited me to a press conference where Ford introduced, for the first time, a rear seat inflatable seat belt and took me on a tour, with a handful of other bloggers, of
Ford's Safety Lab where I got to see actual crash tests.
The third thing that happened was that John Andrews asked me to lead, along with Melissa Garcia from Consumer Queen, a group of 20 savvy shoppers in a project called
BFDeals. This "job" helped to more than double the traffic to my blog Giftfully Simple and shortly after
Lifetime Moms asked me to be an affiliate.
The fourth thing that indirectly came from attending the MARS tweetup was GM invited me to attend the
NAIAS for three days in local Detroit which included cocktail parties, the Cadillac reception, press conferences, interviews and attendance to the show. Unfortunatly, I had to decline because of a previous engagement.
And last, but not least, I was just invited by Collective Bias and Genesis Today to fly to Austin, TX to help choose a winner for their
Genesis of a Great Idea contest.
My advice to you is to socialize. It's all about who you know and frankly, who is going to invite you to an event if they don't know you?
Jump into conversations, wave your arms around and say, "Look at me, see what I can do," go to a conference and walk right up to everyone on your "short list" introducing yourself, join forums where like-minded bloggers are, connect on Facebook and Linkedin.
I'll tell you what...there was no way I was going to bust my butt for 7 sponsors to get to BlogHer and not meet the women I was there to meet...no way!
Make the most of your interactions by doing your homework and taking a leap. Share your resources, pay it forward and do not stab anyone in the back or step on anyone to get to the top. Each and every blogger is unique in their own way and it's not easy to get on the invite lists. It takes a lot of blog posts, socializing on networking sites and giving back before you'll see results, but when your time comes...it will be SO worth it!